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Stability in Gray

"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love" - Anonymous
“We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love” – Anonymous

Looking at the blossoming nara trees and watching the passing clouds beyond it, one could only wistfully accept that these passing beauties would be off in a few days. The flowers would drift from the branches and the clouds would grow darker to obliterate the royal azure of heaven. Nothing would be the same again in this world. Heraclitus said you cannot step on the same river twice; even man is confined with free will to stay as he is, other things in this world will move him eventually. The fact that we are all connected in one single universe, a mere flip of a butterfly’s wing can create a great impact in global disposition. This was what I thought of looking through the bus casement as I passed the length of the Barotac Nuevo highway that had been beautified by local officials with mesmerizing nara trees.

Sitting beside me was a couple who must have been in their late 70’s. The woman tugged the man’s sleeve and laid her head on his shoulder. She must have been exhausted during the trip and wanted to rest her heavy head on the man’s arm. The man obligingly drew her closer to him and lovingly kissed her on the forehead, assuring her of his protection. All the while I thought that the most beautiful thing of the day could be seen through the lovely yellow flowers of nara, but after spotting the old couple affectionately comforting each other, nothing can really contest the true beauty of our own kind. A long time ago, I used to like the sight of young lovers walking aimlessly at the street while clasping hands because their images made me think of passion, of romantic love, of the blossoming emotions so natural and innocent… but I now realize that authentic love requires “stability” which these young lovers missed out. That stability can only be experienced in God and our family and not to the trial-and-error affinity of the young blood. Even though the moment was brief I could sense that the old couple’s love for each other was steadfast and had that stability. It was simply fascinating!

In this secular world, it is quite comforting that even when the trends are rapidly morphing in seasons, love never loses it sfumato. It constantly moves us together, in sickness and in health, in poverty and in wealth, and in sorrows and in happiness. By this, I think that that there are exceptions in general rule. The notion that there is no stability in this world may seem a bad generalization after all. Reflecting on this beautiful sight of a wonderful couple, I am sure that there is in fact one indispensable argument to counter this gross generalization – love binds. This alone is constant because love by nature never separates nor destroys but instead unifies and solidifies.

When we disembarked the bus, I asked the couple where they would be going. The old woman replied, “We will be visiting our dying brother in the hospital. I and my brother are the only family he has.” I expressed my hope for their brother as I helped them settled in the jeepney. They smiled at me in return and said, “God bless you noy.”

God Bless you too, Lolo and Lola.


P.S. To neutralize the tone of this blog, please turn to the picture and tell me what you see.

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  1. February 28, 2009 at 1:02 am

    “That stability can only be experienced in God and our family and not to the trial-and-error affinity of the young blood”

    🙂 So true with God and family. I do admire young kids idealism on unconditional love – if they are lucky enough to experience it. It is naive. And foolish. But pure.

    I see the Holy Grail between the couple 🙂

  2. totomel
    February 28, 2009 at 1:45 am

    you’re right miss duds.

    by seeing the holy grail..i guess you are more of an analytical artist(is there such like that?). no wonder why you function well on both sides of the brain – technology on one side, creative writing and photography on the other side. in short, as what miss foester said, you have a very big crack on your cranium.hehehe

  3. February 28, 2009 at 6:04 am

    What a touching and beautiful retelling of your day’s experiences… =)

    As for the image… I see an old couple, a musician wooing a woman, and a chalice. I think it depicts different stages of relationships. What do you think? =)

  4. Jeremiah
    February 28, 2009 at 4:44 pm

    A very educational blog! Your philosophy background serves you well. 😀 More power to you!

  5. March 1, 2009 at 9:18 am

    Just passing by.Btw, you website have great content!

  6. March 2, 2009 at 8:54 am

    prof. jere, thanks for dropping by. =>

  7. March 2, 2009 at 8:56 am

    mike, i’ll be glad if you’d drop by often here.heheh. i really like to meet new friends.

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